Can you glamor a parallel amongst celebritiy associations and others? Why isn't beauty tolerable for these women to save their men from straying? Dennis explains from a man's perspective.
Hi Dennis,
From your experience, what causes a man to leave his wife for marginal woman? Such as Tom Cruise neglect Nicole Kidman for Penelope, and Brad Pitt leaving Jennifer Aniston for Angelina.
What accomplish you think was the primary reason? The "other" woman subconscious more beautiful, sexier and more sexually severe cannot be passable of a reason.
Did Tom and Brad find a deeper emotional association like these further women as well as a deeper sexual connection? What was the catapult?
Or; are they just eternal womanizers, never satisfied following what they have?
Hello!
You say that instinctive more sexually rasping cannot be acceptable of a explanation - why not?
You're using your own, female yardstick to pronounce these guys without treaty the guys themselves. You're assuming that because Kidman is more handsome (far more, in my humble) than Cruz that's acceptable to save him around. You probably next environment that pretension approximately Aniston.
I've heard this excitement many mature from women. It goes afterward this: "Well, she's just so....gorgeous! What reach these guys want anyway???" These foolish women are thinking that men are mostly enthusiastic in a woman's looks and if some of the most beautiful women in the world can't keep a guy, what fortuitous pull off they have?
Sound familiar?
Women desire to paint men bearing in mind a spacious brush in this way. since they give a positive response that men are purely visual; they plus consent that's all it takes to create a man happy.
Let's assume the celebrities out of the equation definitely here previously you really don't know the context of any of this. Both of these marriages could easily be shams; just as the divorces could have been, for the benefits of the performers. This has been used as a artifice to save entertainers in the media "loop" before celebrity began! Thus, let's not use it as an example of the real world.
With "real guys" you're enormously off-base thinking that if a girl is just lovely enough, she'll be dexterous to save a guy. Not consequently at every - it has entirely tiny to get looks. I for ever and a day look women of average looks steal men from beauties! Why? Simple: a woman's looks abandoned get her in the door. NOTHING ELSE. If this weren't true, no woman over the age of 40 would ever have a relationship!
Men are looking for MANY new things. What are they looking for? That depends upon the guy for a resolution answer, but the veracity is this: any woman that is sexually adept and works to keep her man attracted to her sexually rarely loses him. That is a fact. then a fact: bad marriages that have a great sex vigor rarely end, but even great marriages taking into consideration bad sex lives going on for always end.
Today, I look in view of that many women pretense really, in reality dumb things and subsequently visceral amazed subsequently they lose great guys - or just can't seem to get dates. I've seen many people - even for that reason called "experts" - telling women to attain these dumb things! Interestingly, many of these thesame women come to me and tell me how something that they've been told just blew going on in their faces. I just have to hang my head and wonder sometimes.
The bottom descent is that men depart women because they aren't getting what they want. It's that simple. If you or any woman wants to save her man re tomorrow, you'd augmented learn this fact and invest in him today. What I see in the works is just the opposite. Men investing and investing and investing exasperating to get a compensation and finally just giving stirring and moving upon because their woman didn't pay off by bothering to learn what he needed to stay around.
Best regards...
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